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Writings on intimacy, desire, healing, and the sacred, shame-free work of becoming more fully yourself — from the practice.

  • Desire & Pleasure· Coming soon

    Reclaiming Pleasure After Burnout

    When the nervous system has been in survival mode for months (or years), desire is one of the first things to go quiet. Here is what actually helps it come back — no performance required.

    New post coming soon
  • Culture & Identity· Coming soon

    What an Afrocentric Approach to Sex Therapy Actually Means

    Cultural humility is a buzzword. Cultural competence is a practice. Here is how ancestry, community, and shame-free curiosity change the way we do this work together.

    New post coming soon
  • Couples & Connection· Coming soon

    You Are Not Broken Because Your Relationship Went Sexless

    Sexless seasons are one of the most common reasons couples reach out — and one of the most misunderstood. A gentler map for what is actually happening, and what can shift.

    New post coming soon

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